But Did YOU Die Tho? Confessions of a Widow by Carmen Barton
But Did You Die Tho... Confessions of a Widow is the unfiltered, hilarious, and deeply human podcast from comedian Carmen Barton, marking the four-year anniversary of the sudden loss of her husband, podcaster Anthony Carthan. Broadcasting from the very LA home where Anthony built his podcast dreams, Carmen steps up to the mic to share her own journey—this time, blending gut-busting comedy with raw confessions, unexpected hope, and unapologetic truth.
Through laughter, tears, and a little bit of side-eye, Carmen invites listeners into her world as she navigates widowhood, healing, and the wild road back to truly living. Whether she’s dropping punchlines or peeling back the layers of grief, she’s doing it with heart, humor, and a dash of shenanigans.
This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a resurrection. And trust, you’ll laugh, cry, and ask yourself: But did you die tho?
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🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton sizzles as one of the most captivating female comics to grace the stage! With a natural flair for entertainment, she effortlessly juggles the roles of a new widow and mother to three adult children. Even amid her personal struggles, Carmen's relatability, adaptability, and refreshing take on life never fail to win over audiences.
In the midst of her grief, Carmen bravely shared snippets of her journey in an anthology, propelling her book, And Then She Bounced Back, to the top of Amazon's best sellers list!
Armed with an uncanny ability to find humor in life's trials, Carmen fearlessly transforms her most painful and awkward moments into uproarious comedy.
Hailing from Ferguson, a quaint suburb near St. Louis, Missouri, Carmen's knack for entertaining was evident from a young age as she regaled friends, family, and colleagues with her wit and charm.
Now ascending in Hollywood, Carmen's trajectory is set as she embarks on a global mission: to spread laughter far and wide.
In addition to gracing stages at clubs, colleges, and military bases nationwide, Carmen has brought her comedic talents to Kuwait, Iraq, and Afghanistan, lifting the spirits of troops stationed abroad.
Carmen's television debut on Starz Networks' Martin Lawrence Presents: 1st Amendment Stand Up marked just the beginning of her small screen success. From Nickelodeon's popular comedy series NickMom Night Out to Bounce TV's Off The Chain and Starz's Staan Dup!, Carmen's comedic prowess knows no bounds. Her stand-up routines, featured on Comedy In Color season 3, are now available for streaming on Tubi, Peacock, Amazon, and AppleTV. Recently, Carmen dazzled audiences as the star and Associate Producer of her debut film, This is Life, also streaming on Tubi and Amazon.
Catch Carmen's uproarious antics as a resident juror on BET Networks' Ms. Pat Settles It, a side-splitting, unscripted courtroom show where her courtroom theatrics keep the laughter flowing.
Blessed with both beauty and brains, Carmen's act is a breath of fresh air, seamlessly blending timely humor with her signature flair. With cutting-edge performances and captivating storytelling, Carmen Barton leaves audiences clamoring for more.
But Did YOU Die Tho? Confessions of a Widow by Carmen Barton
Episode 11: New Beginnings: Reflections and Resolutions
Description:
In this thoughtful and hope-filled episode of But Did You Die Though: Confessions of a Widow, Comedian Carmen Barton reflects on life after the holidays and what it means to enter a new year with renewed purpose, new expectations, and a commitment to personal growth.
Carmen opens up about spending New Year’s Eve alone in bed, and surprisingly finding peace, renewal, and clarity instead of sadness. She shares how this season feels like a time of major transition — emotionally, spiritually, and professionally — and how new beginnings can emerge from places we least expect.
With major shifts on the horizon, Carmen announces her upcoming appearance on CBS’s Byron Allen’s Comics Unleashed airing Thursday, January 15 — a milestone moment she’s excited to celebrate.
This week’s Report Card Session highlights the big F for Fitness as Carmen discusses her 2026 goals, wellness intentions, and preparations for her milestone 50th birthday and comedy show coming later this year.
She gives a special shout-out to Coach Dagne Barton and the women who attended the Get Up Girl Conference, acknowledging the community of resilience, ambition, and sisterhood that keeps so many women moving forward.
And for her St. Louis audience — Carmen invites everyone to join her on April 19 at the St. Louis Funny Bone in Saint Charles, Missouri, for a night of laughter as she celebrates turning 50 with a comedy show you won’t forget!
🗒️ What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
- Reflections After the Holidays – From solitude to renewal.
- New Year, New Energy – Why 2026 feels different for Carmen.
- Major Career Announcements – Including her CBS appearance on Comics Unleashed.
- Report Card Session: Fitness – Goals, motivation, and prepping for 50.
- Sisterhood Shout-Outs – Love to the Get Up Girl tribe + women of St. Louis. More at www.linktree.com/getupgurl
- Comedy Show Invite – Celebrate Carmen’s 50th with laughter this April!
🎟️ Upcoming Events & Tickets:
🎂 Carmen’s 50th Birthday Comedy Show
📍 St. Louis Funny Bone — Saint Charles, Missouri
📅 April 19
🎫 Tickets at https://www.stlouisfunnybone.com/post/carmen-barton-april-19-special-engagement
📨 Participate & Share:
Send your Comical Confession, grief story, or New Year’s resolution to:
📧 butdidyoudiethopodcast@gmail.com
🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton is a stand-up comedian, actress, and TV personality whose humor and candor make space for laughter and healing. A widow and mother of three, she transforms life’s toughest transitions into stories of r
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🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton is a stand-up comedian, actress, and TV personality known for her quick wit and authentic storytelling. A widow and mother of three, she fearlessly transforms life’s toughest moments into laughter, whether on stage, on screen, or behind the podcast mic.
🎬 Production Credits:
- Executive Producer: Carmen Barton
- Senior Producer: Coach Dagne Barton