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But Did YOU Die Tho? Confessions of a Widow by Carmen Barton
But Did You Die Tho... Confessions of a Widow is the unfiltered, hilarious, and deeply human podcast from comedian Carmen Barton, marking the four-year anniversary of the sudden loss of her husband, podcaster Anthony Carthan. Broadcasting from the very LA home where Anthony built his podcast dreams, Carmen steps up to the mic to share her own journey—this time, blending gut-busting comedy with raw confessions, unexpected hope, and unapologetic truth.
Through laughter, tears, and a little bit of side-eye, Carmen invites listeners into her world as she navigates widowhood, healing, and the wild road back to truly living. Whether she’s dropping punchlines or peeling back the layers of grief, she’s doing it with heart, humor, and a dash of shenanigans.
This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a resurrection. And trust, you’ll laugh, cry, and ask yourself: But did you die tho?
Full Bio
🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton sizzles as one of the most captivating female comics to grace the stage! With a natural flair for entertainment, she effortlessly juggles the roles of a new widow and mother to three adult children. Even amid her personal struggles, Carmen's relatability, adaptability, and refreshing take on life never fail to win over audiences.
In the midst of her grief, Carmen bravely shared snippets of her journey in an anthology, propelling her book, And Then She Bounced Back, to the top of Amazon's best sellers list!
Armed with an uncanny ability to find humor in life's trials, Carmen fearlessly transforms her most painful and awkward moments into uproarious comedy.
Hailing from Ferguson, a quaint suburb near St. Louis, Missouri, Carmen's knack for entertaining was evident from a young age as she regaled friends, family, and colleagues with her wit and charm.
Now ascending in Hollywood, Carmen's trajectory is set as she embarks on a global mission: to spread laughter far and wide.
In addition to gracing stages at clubs, colleges, and military bases nationwide, Carmen has brought her comedic talents to Kuwait, Iraq, and Afghanistan, lifting the spirits of troops stationed abroad.
Carmen's television debut on Starz Networks' Martin Lawrence Presents: 1st Amendment Stand Up marked just the beginning of her small screen success. From Nickelodeon's popular comedy series NickMom Night Out to Bounce TV's Off The Chain and Starz's Staan Dup!, Carmen's comedic prowess knows no bounds. Her stand-up routines, featured on Comedy In Color season 3, are now available for streaming on Tubi, Peacock, Amazon, and AppleTV. Recently, Carmen dazzled audiences as the star and Associate Producer of her debut film, This is Life, also streaming on Tubi and Amazon.
Catch Carmen's uproarious antics as a resident juror on BET Networks' Ms. Pat Settles It, a side-splitting, unscripted courtroom show where her courtroom theatrics keep the laughter flowing.
Blessed with both beauty and brains, Carmen's act is a breath of fresh air, seamlessly blending timely humor with her signature flair. With cutting-edge performances and captivating storytelling, Carmen Barton leaves audiences clamoring for more.
But Did YOU Die Tho? Confessions of a Widow by Carmen Barton
Episode 10: The Gift of Grief for the Holidays
The Gift of Grief for the Holidays
Description:
In this reflective and heartfelt episode of But Did You Die Though: Confessions of a Widow, Comedian Carmen Barton talks honestly about what happens when grief shows up anyway — even after you’ve made plans, booked trips, stayed busy, and tried to distract yourself through the holidays.
Carmen shares how, despite intentionally filling her calendar, grief still found her — because grief doesn’t ask for permission or follow schedules. From Thanksgiving in St. Louis to traveling to Cancun with her bonus mom, Dagne, and spending Christmas week in Scottsdale with her friend Tina, Carmen unpacks what it looks like to carry grief into beautiful places, joyful moments, and meaningful relationships.
This episode is a reminder that grief doesn’t ruin the holidays — it joins them. And when you stop fighting it, grief can become a teacher, a mirror, and yes… even a gift and sometimes one that hits hard when you are least expecting.
🗒️ What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
- The Illusion of Staying Busy – Why distraction doesn’t cancel grief.
- Holiday Grief Reality Check – How grief still arrives even with travel, plans, and joy.
- Thanksgiving in St. Louis – Being home while holding loss.
- Cancun Reflections – Traveling with her bonus mom, Dagne, and finding peace by the water.
- Christmas in Scottsdale – Friendship, laughter, and allowing joy alongside sorrow.
- The Gift of Grief – How grief reveals what (and who) truly matters.
- GetUPGurl Conference - January 9 and 10 in O'Fallon, IL - register at www.dagnebarton.com
- Carmen's 50th Birthday Comedy Show at the St Charles Funny Bone April 19th - Get tickets at https://funnybonestcharleslp.thundertix.com/orders/new?performance_id=3217468
📨 Participate & Connect:
- Send your grief story or Comical Confession to: butdidyoudiethopodcast@gmail.com
- Follow Carmen on Instagram: @carmencomedy
- Subscribe on YouTube: Carmen Barton Comedy
- Connect via Linktree: @carmenbarton
🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton is a stand-up comedian, actress, and TV personality known for her warmth, wit, and transparency. A widow and mother of three, she transforms life’s most painful seasons into conversations that heal, encourage, and uplift. Through comedy, storytelling, and faith, Carmen reminds grievers everywhere that joy and sorrow can coexist — especially during the holidays.
🎬 Production Credits:
- Executive Producer: Carmen Barton
- Senior Producer: Coach Dagne B
Closing Note: You’ve officially been Carmonized! Tune in next week for more laughter, lessons, and real-life conversations on love, loss, and living out loud. Follow; Like and Subscribe @CarmenComedy in IG
- Follow Carmen on Instagram: @carmencomedy
- Subscribe on YouTube: Carmen Barton Comedy
- Connect via Linktree: @carmenbarton
🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton is a stand-up comedian, actress, and TV personality known for her quick wit and authentic storytelling. A widow and mother of three, she fearlessly transforms life’s toughest moments into laughter, whether on stage, on screen, or behind the podcast mic.
🎬 Production Credits:
- Executive Producer: Carmen Barton
- Senior Producer: Coach Dagne Barton