But Did YOU Die Tho? Confessions of a Widow by Carmen Barton
But Did You Die Tho... Confessions of a Widow is the unfiltered, hilarious, and deeply human podcast from comedian Carmen Barton, marking the four-year anniversary of the sudden loss of her husband, podcaster Anthony Carthan. Broadcasting from the very LA home where Anthony built his podcast dreams, Carmen steps up to the mic to share her own journey—this time, blending gut-busting comedy with raw confessions, unexpected hope, and unapologetic truth.
Through laughter, tears, and a little bit of side-eye, Carmen invites listeners into her world as she navigates widowhood, healing, and the wild road back to truly living. Whether she’s dropping punchlines or peeling back the layers of grief, she’s doing it with heart, humor, and a dash of shenanigans.
This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a resurrection. And trust, you’ll laugh, cry, and ask yourself: But did you die tho?
Full Bio
🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton sizzles as one of the most captivating female comics to grace the stage! With a natural flair for entertainment, she effortlessly juggles the roles of a new widow and mother to three adult children. Even amid her personal struggles, Carmen's relatability, adaptability, and refreshing take on life never fail to win over audiences.
In the midst of her grief, Carmen bravely shared snippets of her journey in an anthology, propelling her book, And Then She Bounced Back, to the top of Amazon's best sellers list!
Armed with an uncanny ability to find humor in life's trials, Carmen fearlessly transforms her most painful and awkward moments into uproarious comedy.
Hailing from Ferguson, a quaint suburb near St. Louis, Missouri, Carmen's knack for entertaining was evident from a young age as she regaled friends, family, and colleagues with her wit and charm.
Now ascending in Hollywood, Carmen's trajectory is set as she embarks on a global mission: to spread laughter far and wide.
In addition to gracing stages at clubs, colleges, and military bases nationwide, Carmen has brought her comedic talents to Kuwait, Iraq, and Afghanistan, lifting the spirits of troops stationed abroad.
Carmen's television debut on Starz Networks' Martin Lawrence Presents: 1st Amendment Stand Up marked just the beginning of her small screen success. From Nickelodeon's popular comedy series NickMom Night Out to Bounce TV's Off The Chain and Starz's Staan Dup!, Carmen's comedic prowess knows no bounds. Her stand-up routines, featured on Comedy In Color season 3, are now available for streaming on Tubi, Peacock, Amazon, and AppleTV. Recently, Carmen dazzled audiences as the star and Associate Producer of her debut film, This is Life, also streaming on Tubi and Amazon.
Catch Carmen's uproarious antics as a resident juror on BET Networks' Ms. Pat Settles It, a side-splitting, unscripted courtroom show where her courtroom theatrics keep the laughter flowing.
Blessed with both beauty and brains, Carmen's act is a breath of fresh air, seamlessly blending timely humor with her signature flair. With cutting-edge performances and captivating storytelling, Carmen Barton leaves audiences clamoring for more.
But Did YOU Die Tho? Confessions of a Widow by Carmen Barton
Episode 8: Bracing for the Holidays w Carmen Barton
Episode 8:
Bracing for the Holidays
Description:
In this deeply emotional and timely episode of But Did You Die Though: Confessions of a Widow, Comedian Carmen Barton opens up about the unique weight the holiday season carries for those grieving. With a mix of honesty, humor, and heartfelt storytelling, she prepares her listeners for the emotional complexity of this time of year — sharing three powerful videos, one special photo, and wisdom from her own journey.
Carmen highlights the voices within the grief community, including the beautiful and insightful words of IG influencer Shanta Q (@heyshantaq), who describes grief in a way that resonates with widows, survivors, and anyone navigating loss.
She also brings attention to the tragic passing of a 24-year-old Dallas Cowboys player who died by suicide — a sobering reminder that while mental health is discussed often, the grief behind many struggles is overlooked. Carmen acknowledges the pain that comes when grief is misunderstood or minimized.
This week’s personal segment features treasured Christmas memories with her late husband, Anthony “Nick” Carthan, and their four children — and the heartbreak that holidays still bring now that she is navigating life alone. She reflects on how her coping has improved over the years, but also acknowledges the lingering ache of celebrating in a city where she has no family nearby.
The episode wraps with a Report Card Session featuring the “C” for Cooking, as Carmen introduces listeners to a true St. Louis classic — the St. Paul sandwich, a nostalgic delicacy that brings comfort, culture, and a taste of home.
🗒️ What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
- Bracing for the Holidays – Why the season hits differently for grievers and widows.
- Grief Community Spotlight – A beautiful grief reflection from IG influencer @heyshantaq.
- Mental Health in the Headlines – Discussing the tragic loss of a 24-year-old Dallas Cowboys player and the grief behind his struggle.
- Christmas Memories & Holiday Pain – Carmen shares videos and a photo from Christmases past, celebrating Nick while acknowledging the weight of his absence.
- Report Card Session: Cooking – A taste of St. Louis as Carmen introduces the legendary St. Paul sandwich.
- Hope, humor, and healing — reminders that grief evolves, but we evolve too.
📨 Participate & Win:
- Send your Comical Confession, grief story, or holiday reflection to: butdidyoudiethopodcast@gmail.com
- Follow Carmen on Instagram: @carmencomedy
- Subscribe on YouTube: Carmen Barton Comedy
- Connect via Linktree: @carmenbarton
Closing Note: You’ve officially been Carmonized! Tune in next week for more laughter, lessons, and real-life conversations on love, loss, and living out loud. Follow; Like and Subscribe @CarmenComedy in IG
- Follow Carmen on Instagram: @carmencomedy
- Subscribe on YouTube: Carmen Barton Comedy
- Connect via Linktree: @carmenbarton
🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton is a stand-up comedian, actress, and TV personality known for her quick wit and authentic storytelling. A widow and mother of three, she fearlessly transforms life’s toughest moments into laughter, whether on stage, on screen, or behind the podcast mic.
🎬 Production Credits:
- Executive Producer: Carmen Barton
- Senior Producer: Coach Dagne Barton