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But Did YOU Die Tho? Confessions of a Widow by Carmen Barton
But Did You Die Tho... Confessions of a Widow is the unfiltered, hilarious, and deeply human podcast from comedian Carmen Barton, marking the four-year anniversary of the sudden loss of her husband, podcaster Anthony Carthan. Broadcasting from the very LA home where Anthony built his podcast dreams, Carmen steps up to the mic to share her own journey—this time, blending gut-busting comedy with raw confessions, unexpected hope, and unapologetic truth.
Through laughter, tears, and a little bit of side-eye, Carmen invites listeners into her world as she navigates widowhood, healing, and the wild road back to truly living. Whether she’s dropping punchlines or peeling back the layers of grief, she’s doing it with heart, humor, and a dash of shenanigans.
This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a resurrection. And trust, you’ll laugh, cry, and ask yourself: But did you die tho?
Full Bio
🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton sizzles as one of the most captivating female comics to grace the stage! With a natural flair for entertainment, she effortlessly juggles the roles of a new widow and mother to three adult children. Even amid her personal struggles, Carmen's relatability, adaptability, and refreshing take on life never fail to win over audiences.
In the midst of her grief, Carmen bravely shared snippets of her journey in an anthology, propelling her book, And Then She Bounced Back, to the top of Amazon's best sellers list!
Armed with an uncanny ability to find humor in life's trials, Carmen fearlessly transforms her most painful and awkward moments into uproarious comedy.
Hailing from Ferguson, a quaint suburb near St. Louis, Missouri, Carmen's knack for entertaining was evident from a young age as she regaled friends, family, and colleagues with her wit and charm.
Now ascending in Hollywood, Carmen's trajectory is set as she embarks on a global mission: to spread laughter far and wide.
In addition to gracing stages at clubs, colleges, and military bases nationwide, Carmen has brought her comedic talents to Kuwait, Iraq, and Afghanistan, lifting the spirits of troops stationed abroad.
Carmen's television debut on Starz Networks' Martin Lawrence Presents: 1st Amendment Stand Up marked just the beginning of her small screen success. From Nickelodeon's popular comedy series NickMom Night Out to Bounce TV's Off The Chain and Starz's Staan Dup!, Carmen's comedic prowess knows no bounds. Her stand-up routines, featured on Comedy In Color season 3, are now available for streaming on Tubi, Peacock, Amazon, and AppleTV. Recently, Carmen dazzled audiences as the star and Associate Producer of her debut film, This is Life, also streaming on Tubi and Amazon.
Catch Carmen's uproarious antics as a resident juror on BET Networks' Ms. Pat Settles It, a side-splitting, unscripted courtroom show where her courtroom theatrics keep the laughter flowing.
Blessed with both beauty and brains, Carmen's act is a breath of fresh air, seamlessly blending timely humor with her signature flair. With cutting-edge performances and captivating storytelling, Carmen Barton leaves audiences clamoring for more.
But Did YOU Die Tho? Confessions of a Widow by Carmen Barton
Episode 6: Second Wave of Grief w/ Carmen Barton
Episode 6: Second Wave
Description:
In this heartfelt and transparent episode of But Did You Die Though: Confessions of a Widow, Comedian Carmen Barton opens up about what she calls the “second wave” of grief — the unexpected emotional surge that can hit long after the initial loss.
After missing last week’s episode due to this wave, Carmen shares what it feels like to experience grief in layers, why the second year can often be the hardest, and how she’s learning to give herself grace through it all.
As always, Carmen keeps it real and relatable, blending humor and healing through her signature 4Cs and 2Fs segment, focusing on Fashion and Crafts — this week showcasing her custom, hand-blinged hats that celebrate her hometown of St. Louis and honor her late husband, Nick.
She also takes us on a quick trip to the Caribbean, reflecting on how time by the water and sisterhood helped her find a bit of peace in the midst of pain. Plus, there’s a fun unboxing moment from her shopping spree (yes, it was budgeted!) featuring a gorgeous pair of designer shoes.
To wrap up, Carmen shares her excitement about her upcoming television appearances, including promoting Ms. Pat Settles It on BET, interacts live with viewers, and reminds everyone that laughter, even through tears, is part of the healing.
🗒️ What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
- The “Second Wave” of Grief – Why it hits harder than expected and how Carmen is coping.
- Tips for Grievers – Insight from Ashes with Art
on surviving the second year of loss. - 4Cs and 2Fs: Fashion & Crafts – Carmen’s St. Louis-inspired blinged hats dedicated to her late husband, Nick.
- Caribbean Reflections – The healing power of water, travel, and friendship.
- Designer Shoe Unboxing – A peek at Carmen’s self-care shopping moment done responsibly.
- Exciting TV News – Upcoming appearances, including Ms. Pat Settles It on BET.
- Live Audience Interaction – Viewers’ comments, love, and laughter in real time.
📌 Mentioned in This Episode:
- Ashes with Art Blog: Reasons the Second Year of Grief Can Be the Worst – Read Here
Camp Widow – campwidow.org
Book: Phenomenal: Gurl That’s U! Letters to My Younger Self by Dagne Barton – Purchase Here
Closing Note: You’ve officially been Carmonized! Tune in next week for more laughter, lessons, and real-life conversations on love, loss, and living out loud. Follow; Like and Subscribe @CarmenComedy in IG
- Follow Carmen on Instagram: @carmencomedy
- Subscribe on YouTube: Carmen Barton Comedy
- Connect via Linktree: @carmenbarton
🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton is a stand-up comedian, actress, and TV personality known for her quick wit and authentic storytelling. A widow and mother of three, she fearlessly transforms life’s toughest moments into laughter, whether on stage, on screen, or behind the podcast mic.
🎬 Production Credits:
- Executive Producer: Carmen Barton
- Senior Producer: Coach Dagne Barton